Life as a toddler and infant…

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The mountains of Sri Lanka. October 22, 2008

Filed under: Daily Life — Jonathan Smith @ 00:37

Last week we had our week-long autumn holiday, and took advantage of the time off to head to the beautiful mountains of Sri Lanka.  Having spent so many of our vacations over the past several years at beaches, we were eager to get into the hills and some cooler weather.  Madeline has spent very little of her life in the mountains. So, early on Sunday morning we headed out of town going east in a rented van with a driver.  On this trip we were accompanied by our friends the Lockwoods, another family with a 2 year-old girl and a 4 year-old boy (their daughter Amy is currently Maddie’s very best friend).

When heading east out of Colombo, the first hills are surprisingly close; and around an hour out of town, the roads become so curvy and narrow, that the going becomes sickly.  Here is where the fun began.  After a few barfs (from the kids, not the adults!), we stopped for breakfast in Kitugala, taking our time (always necessary with children, of course).  We continued into the heart of the tea country and eventually ended up at our destination after about 6 hours of traveling: a high town called Nuwara Eliya.

The town of Nuwara Eliya (about 7500 feet) itself is not so great, but the natural setting is fantastic.  It is nestled in a small valley at the foot of the highest peak in Sri Lanka.  The weather here is so cool and welcoming – our hotel had fireplaces and we used them both nights we were there, and low clouds hang on the hilltops almost constantly; the weather is certainly never boring here.  This time of year in the mountains of Sri Lanka, it usually rains in the afternoons and evenings, while the mornings are relatively clear.

The real reason for coming up to this area was to access a spectacular natural area called Horton Plains, just to the south.  We went there the next day.  This is a large high expanse of open grasslands and natural forests – the highlight is a dramatic pace called World’s End, which is the edge of an escarpment on the southern side of the mountain range.  A 9 km round trip hike took us to this spot – dad carried Maddie all day in a kid’s backpack and she did great!  She loved being outdoors and bring in nature.  We saw deer, bear monkeys (not easily seen), lizards, and many many birds.  Only at the very end did we encounter any serious rain, and drove back to Nuwara Eliya soaking wet and cold – but a warm fire put everything right again.

The next day we took a train from Nanuoya to Ella.  This particular train ride is well-known in Sri Lanka as being one of the most beautiful, especially if one gets first class seats in the observation car as we did.  The train system in Sri Lanka is an underutilized transportation resource, and has not been updated in many, many years.  From a tourists point of view, this is great, because it’s easy to get a spot on a train, and getting on one is like stepping back in time to some bygone colonial era.  The trains themselves are relics.  Really fascinating!  Madeline absolutely LOVED riding on the train, and couldn’t stop talking about it.  She particularly liked the tunnels and kept asking for more.

After about 3 hours we arrived in a charming small town called Ella, to the southeast of Nuwara Eliya.  We stayed for 2 nights in a little hotel perched on the side of a mountain with one of the best views imaginable.  Not the best hotel setting for little kids (lots of precipices to fall from!) but otherwise perfect.  Ella is uniquely situated again on the edge of an escarpment, above a huge cleft in the mountains known as the “Ella Gap”.  Through this huge opening one has an expansive view of the plains below, with the ocean visible early in the mornings under clear conditions.

While in Ella, we enjoyed excellent home-cooked Sri Lankan food, the best we’ve had yet on the island, and dramatic views, cool weather, and storm watching.  This time of year the rainstorms come from the east; they build over the plains in southeastern Sri Lanka, then move up and over the mountains.  From this location, it’s like watching a storm factory each afternoon.   Madeline gained a huge appreciation on this trip for both mountains and clouds!  And everything is so ‘pretty’ now.

Another highlight of the Ella area was a side trip to the Rawana Ella waterfalls, about 20 minutes drive from our lodge.  These are dramatic, high falls, and we took the kids on a narrow trail near the top of them.  The day we went, in the afternoon, it rained a lot and we got to see the falls before and after a big storm.  It’s easy to see how people can get swept away in flash floods when you watch river levels increase so quickly.

On Thursday, we bid farewell to the mountains and headed back to Colombo.  Again, we took our time on the return trip, and took a different way back to the city.  We drove along the southern edge of the mountains, on a route that took us through Ratnapura.  From a barfing point of view, this was much better than our drive up the previous Sunday.  The road is much straighter and better paved, though the mountain views are not as good.  In fact, we had not one single barfing incident on the return trip.

Maddie had one of her best weeks in recent memory.  Unlimited time with her parents and playtime with other kids.  Traveling with another family with small children makes a trip like this much much better.  The kids spent so many hours playing and running around exploring the environment – it was perfect.  I am sure that Maddie can’t wait to get back to the mountains!

 

Stuff. October 17, 2008

Filed under: Daily Life — Jonathan Smith @ 00:56

Finally, we have achieved an ‘equilibrium’ of sorts in our living situation in Sri Lanka.  Our shipment came almost a month ago, and we’ve settled in record time since then.  Getting the shipment was definitely not easy, but all arrived intact and in good shape.

We try not to be materialistic people, but getting your shipment of personal items when moving far away overseas really changes your life, especially when you have a toddler in the house.

And what about little Madeline?  She didn’t seem to be affected too much by the arrival of her stuff – to her, life is great with or without THINGS.  We still need to spend some time making her room a bit more cozy and livable for her, and her playroom is simply outrageously fun to hang out in (yes, she has her own room for all of her toys, nothing else!)  Still, it is a treat for her to be surrounded by her familiar toys and fun things.  And she has a lot of them….  also quite a blast from the past to be unwrapping all of the little itty-bitty baby things that we shipped to Sri Lanka, in preparation of our next bundle of joy.  We’ll be using those things before we know it!

Madeline still goes to school 3 times a week and frequently brings home magnificent handiworks and pieces of art.  She still loves The Little House and has learned to play with other children properly now.  What a relief this has been for us all.  She can share with others now, and doesn’t try to get her way all the time with other kids – a real pleasure to see.  She absolutely LOVES to draw and can do this for great lengths of time.

On Tuesdays and Thursdays, Maddie spends time with her best friend at the moment, Amy (who is about a month younger).  Tuesdays are spent at Amy’s house (she has a trampoline!), and Thursdays at Maddie’s.  Two Tuesdays ago Madeline fell off the swing at Amy’s house and landed on her face, resulting in by far the worst injury she’s ever had in her life:  a few large ’strawberry scratches’ from her forehead past the tip of her nose.  Quite shocking looking, especially to the parents who have never seen something like that on their kid before, but as is often the case, not nearly as bad as it looks.  Apparently she did not even cry when it happened, and delights in telling everyone the story of how she ‘fell down on the ground frmo the swing at Amy’s house!’ (as well as eliciting endless sympathy from people, really milking this one).  The big spot on her nose healed very quickly, but it felt very strange and new to her and she spent a lot of time playing with it.  This was a slight problem but isn’t this always the case with kids and their scabs?

Madeline and Rani are now practically inseparable, and our housekeeper Ester has now joined the best friends club.  The three of them are hilarious.   Madeline talks about Rani frequently when she is not around, and is especially attached to Rani’s daughter Darshani, who comes to play with Maddie on days when she doesn’t have school.

 

A belated birthday post. October 17, 2008

Filed under: Uncategorized — Jonathan Smith @ 00:14

Yes, in fact we DID celebrate Madeline’s birthday last month in style, though it was not the way we had originally planned it to be.  Our intent from the beginning was to have a big party with lots of people and food and drinks, but as our shipment was so late to arrive in Sri Lanka, we had to put that on hold (we had purchased so many party favors in the states that were in the shipment).  Anyway, it was fantastic and Maddie had a superb time.

As a parent, to think back only a few years and realize that before that time your child didn’t even exist… it’s mind-blowing.  Of course I will never forget that fateful day in Vallejo, California in our hospital suite overlooking beautiful Marine World… the long night of Sept. 19th-20th waiting waiting…. sleeping with peanut-sized Madeline curled under my arm, not knowing what the hell we were doing and totally lost taking care of this new ‘thing’ (to the point where a nurse actually had to show us how to install the car seat, and did it for us).

So on Saturday, September 20th, we had a modest little cupcake gathering on a beach in a place called Bentota, Sri Lanka, south of Colombo.  It was perfect, really.  That weekend we took our first trip as a family outside of Colombo and headed south about 2 hours from our house.  We left on Friday afternoon, arriving just in time for dinner, and came back on Sunday afternoon.  We went with a group of other (mostly) families from school with kids, most importantly for Maddie, her friends Amy and Sonia were there too.  The weekend was all about just relaxing and spending time together as families… and for us, getting to know other folks at the school as well.  There are so many children in the community around Maddie’s age, with parents who are really neat people, easy to hang out with, and more or less our same age.  A real treat for mom and dad!

As the sun got lower in the sky we gathered everyone on the beach and officially broke out the cupcakes.  We had bought Betty Crocker cake mix and chocolate frosting (with sprinkles!) the week before (where? A secret!) and baked them on Thursday night before heading south.  Hugely enjoyed by all, and we had just enough for kids and parents who wanted them.  Not really a gift-giving party, which suited Maddie perfectly.  She just got to play and play and play with her friends in her favorite environment: the beach.

Happy 2nd birthday, dear Madeline.