Life as a toddler and infant…

…Madeline and Calvin's blog

Truckin’ August 24, 2009

Filed under: Daily Life — Jonathan Smith @ 06:22

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Mads dressed up

The weather in Colombo has been delightfully cool lately – in fact, it is downright chilly in the early mornings (okay, it’s all relative….)  Anyway, it’s been very nice.  Is has been rainy as well, most often at night, but no thunderstorms.  This seems out of sync with then normal monsoon rainfall patterns throughout the year, but it is pleasant.

The first full week of school if behind us and it was a good one.  Dad has been working hard (but trying not to work too much), and Mom has been thoroughly enjoying not working.  She still has 2 more months on her maternity leave.  Though I can’t say that she is enjoying every minute of it.  There are definitely times when the kids drive her insane – and this is partly due to the fact that Madeline’s school has not started yet.  So the potential for very long days with the kids can be high, even with Rani here.  And sometimes by the time Dad gets home, the entire household is fidgety and cranky, and this is not what he wants to see after a long day at work!  But that’s a scenario played out in countless households every day.

Mads and Cal are doing well these days.  Maddie is a little off her rocker at times; it’s like the ‘terrible twos’ have finally arrived (now that she is almost 3!) and are condensed into a small space.  Her difficulty is like that of any kid this age.  She wants what she wants immediately, and has a hard time taking no for an answer.  And she still has a very hard time with the attention that Calvin gets.  I think that’s really the root of her difficulties.  Her perceived lack of attention drives her completely crazy at times, as she sometimes won’t even let Mom and Dad talk to each other around her!  But she’s the sweetest kid and so much fun to be around.  This past weekend she and Dad started another painting project, the first since we’ve been back in Colombo.  She still has the artistic touch!  And on Wednesday, her school starts again.  This will be great for all concerned parties. Calvin likes tummy time, and last week rolled over twice!

Mads tigersYesterday we went to the Colombo zoon for the first time.  It was quite an experience!  First of all, getting there was extremely difficult. Colombo is a very very hard city to navigate by car and finding things off the beaten path can put your navigating skills to the test.  We went with Mark, Meredith, and Sonia, and without them leading the way in thier car, I don’t think we could have found it (even then, we got lost more than a few times…) 

We’ve been in Sri Lanka now for a year, and we’ve been to lots of far out places here, but nothing prepared us for the spectacle at the zoo.  We were the most interesting attraction for the Sunday masses there – not since Malawi, as a Peace Corps volunteer, have I felt more awkward and out of place and stared at so consistently by crowds of people.  Part of it was definitely because of Calvin, Maddie, and Sonia – these kids were like a walking freak show!  After a while we simply had to just tell people: DO NOT touch Madeline.  People mean well, and are charmed by her, but she herself started freaking out at all the attention.  Calvin was protected by his stroller (he slept most of the time and was covered), so we was safe from the prying hands and fascination.  Anyway, it was fun, but next time we will not go on a Sunday.  The zoo in Colombo is very well done, with lots of animals, beautiful grounds, and quite clean and comfortable.  We only explored part of it before we had had enough.  And poor Sonia was sick the whole time, so we cut the visit short on her account too.

 

Back in Sri Lanka. August 13, 2009

Filed under: Daily Life — Jonathan Smith @ 05:43
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Cue ball.

It’s been such a long time since this blog was updated – and it’s not for lack of events!  This summer has been a sanely busy one.  The family is now firmly back in Sri Lanka and starting a new school year in Colombo.

Besides Dad, the family didn’t travel too much this summer.  In fact, this was the first summer in a long time that we didn’t collectively feel completely wiped out by the time we left the USA!  Maybe we are finally getting used to the whole summer-in-the-US-thing after so many years of doing it…

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With dear cousin Scarlett.

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World traveller!

We arrived in Colombo just before Mom’s birthday at the end of July, after another marathon flight plan from San Francisco.  Any way you slice it, it’s painful – though we had the same itinerary as we did over the winter holiday, through Hong Kong on the return, which is quite pleasant.   As we did in January, we spent much of the day on Victoria Island and had a nice lunch near the top of Victoria Peak.  The kids did great on the two flights – much better than mom and dad did!  Madeline is in heaven when on an airplane.  She loves to fly, and travel, and can’t wait to do so again.  I don’t know if she is instinctively like this, or like this because of the lifestyle we lead, but either way, it’s absolutely wonderful to have such an easy-travelling kid!  And of course, Calvin doesn’t care where he is, as long as he is dry and warm and has mom around.

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In Green Valley.

Most of the time in the states was spent in California, at Nonnie and Papa G’s house.  Ah, the life in Green Valley!  It’s so comfortable there and good for the kids.  Days were spent going on walks, playing in the backyard on the swingset and with Bogey, feeding horses, and generally relaxing.  The weather was perfect all summer, and didn’t really ever get too hot (at least not compared to Sri Lanka.)  Nights were cool and quiet.  Madeline even had her own bedroom this summer, complete with her own bed with Dora sheets (thanks, Uncle Drew!)  The family connected with many friends and other family members too.  Todd and Karen’s family is growing steadily (welcome to the world little Ruby :) ) – Henry and Scarlett are two of the most charming kids in the world and Maddie loves playing with them.

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The young astronomer.

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Reaching the crux of a 5.12 pitch!

While in the USA, the family made one trip together, to Colorado.  After spending a week there in the woods where he grew a beard, dad welcomed mom, Calvin and Madeline.  Everyone had a great time.  The family stayed in the little cabin in the woods just near Meemaw and Poppy’s house and it was comfy and cozy as usual.  We had picnics in the woods, went on hikes, played putt-putt golf, learned to look through a telescope, did some window shopping, and connected with Dad’s family.  Lots of quality family time – cousins Nathan, Malachi and Sadie are superb with Maddie and Calvin and all the kids had so much fun together.  Probably the most exciting development for Madeline this summer is that she learned to rock climb with dad – she even has her own purple harness!

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MICHAEL!

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Comfy with Poppy in Colorado.

Of course, everyone was smitten with Calvin.  Maddie has learned to be okay with this, and doesn’t get too crazy any more when attention is given to Calvin.  Of course, when around family, there is always someone else to pay attention to her anyway.  Calvin is quite possible the cutest baby ever (though Maddie was also pretty cute – but  Calvin is in a class by himself.  A real classic.)  He is getting so big.  It’s incredible that this is the same little peanut that entered the world so recently.  His thighs are becoming the super-chunk variety, and he’s up to about 14 pounds.  His disposition is absolutely the best you could ask for in a 3 month-old.  Naturally, he has his cranky spells, but they are few and far between.  He smiles and laughs more than any other baby I’ve seen.  If this keeps up this boy will be the ultimate charmer in life (and probably will get anything he wants!)  Hmm… maybe that’s not so good in the long run!

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On Trail Ridge Road at sunset....

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The Colorado kid clan.

So now, we are pretty much adjusted back to life in Sri Lanka.  It’s a new school year, and our second year in the country, and that means that it’s so much easier now.  Looking at our work colleagues that are new this year, and remembering the settling-in stage that we went through last year this time, makes us so happy to be ‘returning teachers’.  And Mom is thoroughly enjoying her time at home with the kids.  She doesn’t go back to work until the end of October, and is loving getting caught up on so many aspects of her life.  Maddie goes back to her school on August 25th, so the house can get a little crazy during the day.  But Maddie always seems to have lots of playdates and somehow mom keeps her pretty busy.